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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am so sorry you are struggling.
I don't understand why she can talk to you for 6 hours ( seems excessive) but only has 10 minutes a day to meet? I wouldn't drive to see anyone for 10 minutes, I don't suggest you do that. But then I wouldn't talk to 6 hours either
Can you set up small manageable goals? Like break your life into chunks.
I also wondered if you have that much time to be on the phone could you use that time for undemanding part time job? Something simple?
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Well she is like 10 min away if I go by car so thats not something hard to do.
And about the job part ... I went so far with this lie about college and having a degree that now If I try to get a job it will be noticeable ..
What I should do is work on my design portfolio and start freelancing again like I did before this new college started .. but I dont have the energy to do that for some reason .. and also I did force myself and sent some applications but they choose someone else ...
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Originally Posted by JustJenny
I agree with divine too.
And it seems to me that although she doesn't want a relationship with you, she wants to keep you around for some reason. Maybe it makes her feel better about herself?
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I thought about this too .. she seems like someone who enjoys attention , otherwise why would she act so friendly with everyone ... she now acts super friendly with a guy that likes/liked her , hugs and talking and smiling to him .. I think and told her that he might think that she is giving him hopes by acting like that and she said that she is just polite , she tried this with me also before all this started , to hug me but I pushed her away and said things dont work like this