So I guess we didn't really send Scar to the T for DID.
Scar has deep depression.. or something else, research is in progress, and the main reason was that but since DID and the system is a huge part of his life.. or the life of the body (all of us are alters, the original/core/the one born with the body is gone) we had to open up about it. Still he is not comfortable of letting us talk, and we respect his decision because we know that this might be a massive trigger, we still write notes and go into therapy by telling Scar what to say and what not.
Now we didn't just go and said "Oh I have DID" no, instead we discussed that the condition should be let out without a name. We are parts, the system is us. We don't use technical names and we are yet to say that all of us have a different story and the time that Scar sometimes feels as left out (which will be actually said in the next session). We wanted for her to give her diagnosis with hope that she will say DID as it because of Scar's doubts but it's taking too long and Scar's depression is growing stronger and we need help with that. Should we skip forward with about 10 sessions and throw DID out, of course by my help, or shall we stay in closed and let the woman do her job?
I guess if we did go in there with a main reason being dissociation we would say it first but we went there for Scar's voices and depression/something unknown and it seems kind of pointless.
Thanks for any help, Evee