Well she sure doesn't sound like a good fit for you and what you're looking for. I can imagine how frustrated and disappointed you must have felt after that encounter!
Do you have a preference to the type of therapy you would like to have? Here's a site that had a lot of information that I like:
www.guidetopsychology.com.
If you can you go outside your insurance and pay on your own, it is so nice to not have the distraction and interference of insurance being involved in your treatment.