So we fight about money a lot. And I have a savings account that just had my name on it and have had it for a while he knows about it and when we sold the RZR we put that money in it. But before Christmas I took $200 out to buy a few gifts (some for him) and to pay the babysitter but I didn't tell him because I didn't want him to know what gifts I got. And I totally forgot about it. So today he said would you get me the money out of your savings account so I can buy that dirtbike. He sold his and it costs about 2000 more. So I said sure. I be out the money home and there was 200 less than he thought there would be so he freaked out. So then I added up the money that he had. And there was almost $400 that he has that I knew nothing about. So I said where did you get the $400. He said that's may money from working overtime. I took it out of the bank when I got paid sometime. And I said " your money" he said yes! I work overtime and that should be my money. But my job is part time (32 hours per week) and I NEVER get to work any overtime. I feel like he is such a control freak and nothing I ever do is good enough.And yesterday he told me that I was lazy. All I do every single day is get the kids up take them to the babysitter drive an hour to work then drive an hour home to get the kids at about 5 get them home feed them bath them get stuff ready for them the next day eat do their laundry or whatever else they need and then get them to bed and then I go to bed at about 9:30. Sean does do our laundry and unload the dishwasher when he gets home which is an hour before me. He wants me to do everything his way by a certain time. It's so frustrating. I don't know what to do. I need advise!!! Thanks in advance