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Originally Posted by Le.Monsieur.S
Call me super sensitive, but assume that your friend came to you and he/she told you that I cannot change and get better, and feel bad when I talk about it, to which you replied him/her: you're right, you are not ready for change. What do you think he/she will feel and think you meant? Just think about it from this angle.
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I was specifically referring to YOUR very own original post. You may want to re-read it before you accuse me of whatever it is I'm being accused of.
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Originally Posted by Le.Monsieur.S
I have been in this forum for more than 2 years now, and I am not sure what I am getting from it, honestly. Sometimes I need to tell someone something, but at the same time telling this thing makes me feel bad and sometimes cry because I think of my situation more consciously to put it in words, and haven't changed a bit. People tell you things you already know, but you are just not ready yet to embrace them.How do you think this forum is helpful?
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Now I will, bow out respectfully, because you are admittedly sensitive, and I am admittedly not very patient with people putting words in my mouth or attaching hidden meanings to my words, as if I have nefarious reasons for posting.
PS. My friends would think and feel that I'm trying to be helpful, that I was VALIDATING what they had already personally said and acknowledging their struggle. They don't jump to negative assumptions about me just because the words aren't candy coated. They know I'm not Willy Wonka and that I don't sugar coat shyt. Shyt is shyt, end of story.
I tell it like it is, as long as I'm being respectful.