Yeah. He is functional. He says he feels like its prison if he's in the flat all of the time. So, he goes out for about an hour or two each day after work. I suppose I'm glad he is honest with me, but I do get jealous.
He freely goes out and enjoys life, and I'm always neurotic and frightened. I never leave the house, so I do encourage him to get out. It's just, dammit, could it be ANYTHING else besides a bar?
I don't expect that to change without him wanting it or a lot of work. So, for now, I try to let it slide.