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Originally Posted by ~Christina
Sometimes it really boils down to you need to be happy /content with who you "are"
Please don't fall into the trap that you " need someone" to be happy.
You can find happiness.. Take time and self reflection.. The majority of people in relationships find that partner when they were not even looking.. Life is funny like that.
Go easy on yourself .
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Thank you, I don't know if I need someone per se but I do think it'd be nice to be given another shot at it. Sometimes I do self-reflection and it gets boring after awhile since I have no one to share it with. Not to mention the real bore which is not knowing about "her" life and thoughts, though I'm working on this by trying to get to know other people's lives better, even if we're not dating.
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Originally Posted by divine1966
Many people aren't in a relationship at 21. It isn't unusual. Many are busy with school and other activities. You said you haven't been in a relationship for 7 years? So you were in one at 14? Maybe I read it wrong.
Are there other things you might get busy with like school or friends or hobbies or work?
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Yes, I was in one at 14. I don't know what we were thinking lol but it was fun. I go to school, hang out with friends, do work part-time, and exercise so I am pretty busy. Sometimes I put up a strong front until I get home and then that's when I think a relationship would be nice.
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Originally Posted by Rose76
It's pretty common for things to go wrong in relationships when you are young. If that wasn't true, everyone would end up married to the first person they dated.
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Very true, and I've learned many people are in bad relationships. However what concerns me is that people don't even give me a chance anymore.
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Originally Posted by Shanghai Cloud
I'm sorry you're in this situation. I've been alone almost all the time since I left my hometown and...I've been asking your title question for as long as I can remember, and would love to talk more.
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I will message you later, but I wanted to let you know I am glad you've shared this with me