This is just one of those things that's been bugging me lately, and I'm wondering how odd any of it is. Basically, I've never had sex, and while I've definitely had fantasies when I was a teenager (mostly related to fictional characters), I don't think I've had attractions to anyone currently in my life. It doesn't really help that some of the more female-oriented fanservice I've run into just doesn't really do much for me (shirtless scenes, male butt shots, etc.; it's mostly in writing that I find it not as bad) and I guess fanservice in general doesn't always do it for me.

I guess it just doesn't help that there were these friends I used to have (I don't really talk to them anymore) and I stumbled across one of them kind of going on about how women are drawn to this and that and I guess it doesn't really help that it got me wondering "is there something wrong with me that I'm not always drawn to this and that? Do I just have issues or something?"

So is this odd? I mean, I guess some people sexually develop in different ways and have different turn-ons, but still...is this odd?

(I hope I'm not wasting anybody's time with this)