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Old Jan 27, 2016, 12:35 AM
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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
I felt the same way about my brother when we were teenage / college age. Now he is doing much better than i am, is married with children, blah blah blah. Life is still harder for women than for men. He didnt have to take time off work to have a baby! He probably has the same anxiety you have, he just doesnt talk about it. Dont slow yourself down to make him or the family feel better - i did and it was a mistake. Just do what you need to do.

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No,i mean I have agoraphobia. I am working on bettering myself. He does have his issues though. I just worry for him which is why i have so much "judgemental" type feelings inside. But,i do need to just let him figure it out on his own and let him be on his path and stay positive he'll better himself in his own way and time.