Hello
I allways have that problem with my girlfriend. I know her for almost 15 years. We have two children (2 years boy and .5 year girl). Sometimes I don't know how to be honest with my problems. I had some problems in job and small salary and I was not be able to pay all taxes, mortgage. But I had hope that I'll gain some money and didn't tell her. I also take some money from our other bank account (for children). Of course when she know the true she was very angry. I tell her that I will be not lying. But I break it. I try gain more money but I'm very frustrated. I sometimes also lie with small things. I know I didn't deserve it but shy didn't give me any hugs for almost year. She is also very frustrated and didn't talk to much. I try find new job and sell some non used stuff but I'm very tired psychically. I have problems with concentration and I can search for work, clean house or other things when children sleep. She also worried about my lack of concentration and she said that I can kill our children because my problems with concentration. I'm very depressed and I'm worry that she break with me. She said that she love me but I didn't feel it.
Thank you for your help and all the best