Well couple of things are concerning. He doesn't want sex and you've been only dating 4 months. He already doesn't want it?

Seeing only on the weekends is ok but maybe one quick date middle of the week? My fiancée and I lived an hour apart before engagement too ( live together now), it is manageable.

In my experience in the past I felt needy and anxious when deep inside i knew the relationship was wrong and there was no future. I don't feel anxious and needy when things are good.

You might not be pushing him away but rather feeling that he isn't 100% available, emotionally and actually physically too (at 35 no sex?) Bet you would have no need to text all the time and be needy if he was 100% into you the way you want it

Listen to your guts.

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