Wish I had a good answer to help you out. My t knows a little about my CSA, but, we haven't discussed it a whole lot. Recently I've been needing to discuss it with t. I dropped hints about needing to talk about it for a few weeks without any luck. I finally wound up just randomly blurting it out. It was a load off. Of course now I'm faced with the difficulties of finding a way to speak out loud what I need to get out.