Dear MC,
So you may or may not realize this, but you have this generally calming effect on me. Like just being in your presence calms me, without you even having to say anything. H knows this, and it came up tonight. He said that he's not entirely comfortable with it. Which made me feel weird. I feel like maybe this is something we need to discuss in our re-re-scheduled appointment Friday (thanks, blizzard!) But I don't know how. Is he threatened? Is it that he's bothered that he doesn't have this same calming effect on me? I mean, it's not like I'm saying you turn me on, just that you calm me. (And as I said to him, there are other people I know or have known that have had a calming influence. So it's not just you.) But I don't know how to approach it in session without it being weird...