Could you try a short stay unit at a different nursing home? I know the one I went to after surgery was all set up. I got my meds right away and every 4 hours I could ask for more. Is there a way the hospital can make sure where you go is set up? Im not sure what is possible.

I can feel your anxiety and frustration over this and can relate to it so much. I hope this surgery is beneficial and its the start of hopeful progress.