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Originally Posted by Le.Monsieur.S
I agree that we get some validation from these forums that we are not alone in our suffering, but for me, even though I seek some understanding and someone to relate to my experiences, I feel bad about what I write. So, I have these two contradictory things: I need to vent because I feel bad, so bad, but at the same time, if I vent I feel bad, too, that I wrote what I wrote. Basically because it reminds me of my issues more consciously, and partly because of exposing my personal emotions and life to others, even though no one knows me, and I know no one personally. Others' posts might make it worse. It is my experience with every single thread I've opened about my personal issues.
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Being in contradiction with yourself is pretty common and what I believe creates the emotional conflict you have to begin with.
And the whole idea of getting better IS to bring your "problems" right to the forefront, which is to a point in consciousness where you can begin to try and understand yourself and your problems better.. It's like climbing out of a dark hole up into the light.
If you don't take the risk to share with others ,that you don't even know but can be empathetic , you will always be inside your own head. Is that where you want to be ? Obviously the fact you posted here means you might need to get "out of your own head".
So now we also seem to be getting to at least one issue . You have already posted some of your issues and maybe got some responses you didn't particularly care for. Your probably very sensitive to criticism perhaps. I know I don't like to be "disagreed" with but you see that's part of my problem. Therefore it is helpful to be criticized and learn from it.
Keep coming back
