no we didnt argue so much as we went through a frustrating period of miscommunication where neither of us could understand the other. from my perspective that was mostly because i couldnt make her understand me because i couldnt understand myself.
you re right about it being a short time since she contacted. things have just been weird in emails for so long and she used to get back to me so much quicker and while she has sent me a couple of emails recently she hasnt addressed the ones i sent her at all.
anywho. you already know i am sorry about the loss you have suffered with your friend too. i really do empathise more than you probably know.
good luck and thanks for answering impala.