I wanted to tell you that I'm sorry I was short on sympathy/empathy last night. I should have expressed it; I feel it. I just deal better with facts right now. And long tangents.

My therapist made me memorize something when I started seeing him about doing only what you can do at the time you can do it. It does make sense and I still think about it even though I don't always adhere to it. You can't do everything while you are grieving. Your son is the most important thing besides keeping yourself well enough to care for him. Anything beyond that is just icing.