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Originally Posted by Argonautomobile
Sorry to hear things went so badly with ex-T and that you're having trouble settling with new T. It sounds, though, like she (new T) is nice enough, and I'd encourage you to give it a chance. It took me a pretty long time to develop a connection with my T, but it was worth it in the end.
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Thank you for this, it gives me hope to keep going.
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Originally Posted by PinkFlamingo99
It's so hard to trust again. I'm terrified too. I'm starting an intensive 2 year program and I'm afraid it won't help or I'll hate it, but I think I'm even more afraid of the opposite.
We had really similar situations with bad therapy and it is SO damaging to any kind of trust. I think that fear of getting attached is even worse than the one of not clicking with a therapist. I think you should keep fighting, but holding back a part of you isn't a bad thing. I don't want to ever trust the way I did again. It's dangerous.
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Thank you, I wish you a lot of luck in your program. I really want to fight and I don't want to give old T any power over me but trust again is so difficult.