I don't think it is fair to say who has it harder. In fact one could argue that men might have it harder as society expects them to be tough and accomplished. It is much harder for a man to prove that he is abuse victim or to get a custody if he is a better parent etc etc do it's not fair to even compare

I also don't understand comments about not driving. You don't drive. And you are older than your brother . Many people don't drive. For different reasons. If you don't drive yourself why do you judge him?

I also don't understand concepts about men being providers. Most modern women work. And I am confused on your description of wonderful men that you know. Men you previously described that you hang out with didn't sound that awesome at all! Plus you said before everyone you know is shallow and self absorbed and kind of have bad habits like cheating etc . Now they sound like they are high class and you compare them to your brother. I am confused.

I understand worrying about well being and health of your brother but why judging?

Btw my daughter is professionally employed, has graduate degree, happily married and has no mental illness yet she doesn't drive. There is no crime in that and isn't that unique.

It's good idea trying to better yourself, that's I agree with.

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