You know, I think I can sympathize with what it's like to have a T more businesslike and goal oriented than warm and caring. There were a few times in the beginning when he'd re-direct instead of wallowing with me..and, yeah, I admit to feeling disappointed and maybe a little misunderstood.

In the end, though, I think it's good that my T isn't warmer (he's not cold, but he doesn't exactly drip sugar, either). I don't think it really would have been good for me to have someone sit with me in my misery, and I think his professionalism kept me from forming an unhealthy dependency.

I'm not saying this is the case with you, just saying I think I get it and it sucks. Have you talked to her about this?