Hi,

My T sent me a message a couple of days ago, asking to reschedule (including the reason for rescheduling). It was a personal reason, not an emergency. Let's say something that I guess is more fun than talking to clients. Which I do understand, but then again... I don't.

I recently canceled a session too. My T's policy is to cancel at least 48 hours in advance. I always give a reason, even though maybe I shouldn't. And actually my reason wasn't an emergency either. Just rescheduling for my convenience.

Anyway, I'm a bit frustrated now. I know the cancellation policy works in both directions. If I am allowed to cancel, so is my T. But it feels weird. As if I'm second priority (which obviously I am). Maybe I have a problem accepting that. While I sometimes seem to see my appointments as my second priority too, apparently.

T always says I treat myself harder than I would treat other people. Guess that isn't the case here. It's rather the other way around.

How do you see your obligations and your rights to cancel compared to your T's rights and duties? Should both be able to cancel for the same reasons? I'm lost...