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Originally Posted by Argonautomobile
I think it's possible, sure, but I also think it would be bad practice if that were the case. She shouldn't be adjusting this type of behavior based on yours, either. It should remain consistent for all clients no matter what anybody does. I guess the only way to know is to ask.
Is there anything else that gives you the impression she's decided it's okay for her to cancel for non-emergency reasons? Does she strike you as the kind of person or T who would say to herself, "Elkino cancelled for non-emergency reasons, so I'm sure they won't mind if I do." ?
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Not really, as far as I remember, the reasons in the past were always more or less emergencies. Until this one, where it feels more like this: if I would react bad, it would feels as if I'm trying to prevent T from participating in the fun thing. (Also why I feel bad she tells me the reason actually). Feels a bit like emotional chantage.
And maybe I get this wrong. Maybe T feels comfortable enough to trust me with the reason and to talk to me. Maybe she thinks we feel comfortable enough to reschedule if that fits better with our other plans. Thinks that flexibility should come from both sides. I absolutely don't know. But I don't think T would hurt me is she knew she would.