Work is giving me sleepless nights.
I had a phone interview with a company in san francisco and it went well. However housing costs there are almost the worst in the nation. I'd have to be sure to ask for enough to live ok on. Not sure if that is possible although it is a city I would love

Work is complicated---hating it really. One caveat--my boss gave me a project that has potential to lead to another project which could be career defining for me. But not a guarantee. Should I stay or should I go now as the song goes. If I stay there will be trouble if I go there will be double--or is it the other way around?

So sorry you are in pain!! Does anything work?