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frogysgirl said:
Don't know why after all these years it still hurts so very badly. Thought I'd be "over' it by now.
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My "trauma" was very different to yours (don't really want to go into it just now, but if you like you could read some of my older posts

), but it happened 11 years ago, and I wouldn't consider myself "over" it either. Don't have any useful advice, sorry, but just to let you know you're not alone.
(((frogysgirl)))