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And if a friend vanishes for a while do you always blame yourself? Do you panic and think they've probably gone for good and changed their mind about you overnight? Even if you can't think of anything you might have done wrong, or to irritate them, or what might have happened?

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Oh, yes. When I was in early high school I hung out with a group of people who seemed to do pretty much exactly that - they started off friendly, but gradually started leaving me out until I finally took the hint and stopped trying to be around them - and ever since I've been worried that my other friends will get fed up of me and leave me as well. Also, if a friend online doesn't reply to my messages for a few days and doesn't have a reason that I know of (like being on holiday, for example), then I'll start to worry it's my fault and I said something to upset them...or, they've just got fed up of me.