Well you shouldnt be interested i other women if you are married. I know it sounds a bit ignorant, but could you go to counseling with your wife. Does your wife know about this other woman? I don't mean to be mean but so many of my neighbors have moved recently, all new divorcees being the problem. sometimes i wish couples could be more forgiving of infidelity, but i don't think that is a possibility sometimes because one of the partners would be hurt so badly.