I do like old school men myself, gentlemen etc, but I think we have very different understanding of what that implies. There is nothing weird in liking old fashioned men. It's just there is nothing old fashioned about men you know. "

"Old school men" don't disrespect women. Washing a dish is nice but that's not what makes men high class.

It's just very sad that you consider a man who sexually violated you and horribly disrespected you the very first time he showed up to your house and overall treated you badly "old school" and "taking care" of you. He maybe cleaned the spill but he also violated you. It is sad you think so highly of these totally inappropriate people.

Your brother might be very troubled and he might be doing poorly but I wouldn't compare these less than classy men you are talking about to him, they aren't any kind of role models whatsoever.

They might be working but in regards how they conduct themselves there is nothing "old school" about them.

Your brother could do better, sure. But I wouldn't be comparing people. He probably tells people he thinks you can do better. Everybody could do better in something. He might have mental illness with his total lack of motivation. He might be depressed and have addiction etc



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