i was 2 when we moved to a new house. i was 2 and 3 months when my sister was born. we had a babysitter for a while after that that was totally inappropriate. locked us outside in bare feet etc. then one i loved for a short while. then this other one who checked me. so id say i was at a minimum 3 plus. she was with us for a couple of years as far as i know and im sure i was older than 3. maybe up to 5. i cant say. maybe even older. it was her who did it. i used to hate her like no one else. i didnt hate anyone but i could have killed her. i did NOT want to be left with her. i wanted my mother to never let us near her again. is 3 young enough to still be doing that? checking i mean?

edited to add that my mother, knowing her, was probably off work for a good while after my sister was born so i was probably at least 4 before this woman i hated started to look after us.