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Originally Posted by divine1966
Omg! So he carried on a serious relationship with you while being engaged? How did he pulled that off?
You two went places and where was she then? Wouldn't she suspect in 6 months? Like if he is unavailable for her on the weekends because he is on a date with you? Or he wouldn't come home at night? I can't even imagine?
I assume in 6 months you have been to his house and wasn't he scared she'll come over? Or were there any feminine things at his place?
And you didn't notice that he isn't available for you, like not staying over night etc? Or not answering the phone?
Are they long distance? That's the only way I can imagine he could lie. I am engaged. I can't imagine how my fiancée or I would be in a relationship with someone else on the side without other person being suspicious .
I know people have affairs. But I can't imagine having full blown relationship with two people at the same time and nobody even wonders what's going on.
Of course it's not sincere apology. What a messed up jerk. I have hard time understanding how can one manage such nonsense for 6 months!!! He is a con artist!
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Originally Posted by divine1966
Oh I see! I didn't think of the line of work when he is on the road. I am wondering if you should tell his fiancée. I would certainly want to know if I was her. I would not marry this jerk. I feel horrible for you but at least you are free off this cheater but imagine poor woman has no clue! She is going to marry this liar!!!
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I did tell her. I told her that the nights she thought he was off working in another state he was probably with me and vice versa. I just told her the facts I wasn't rude or anything but i wanted her to know he's a liar. Well she pretty much told me to get lost so either she thinks I'm making it up or she thinks he's the best thing that's happened to her. But as you say this is a pure con artist/sociopath the way he lies so i'm sure he lied his way out of it and of she'd believe him over me. I even told her about his online dating profile gave her the screen name and all but guess what...he is STILL on there!!!!