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Originally Posted by divine1966
My therapist says there is no point wasting time figuring out why people do what they do. Some people are unhealthy and no amount of figuring out will give us the answer why they do crazy things.
I was once pursued by this man I knew. It didn't develop in anything but I later discovered that this whole time he had a long term girlfriend. I asked my t why would someone pursue a woman if he already has one! And that's when she told me it is a waste time to even think "why", he is messed up, that's "why".
Don't waste another minute on this man. Be glad you are done with him. He is a cheat. So no. His apology isn't sincere. Bet you he will continue affairs after he is married
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More good advice. thanks! Nothing like a good therapist huh!? Mine also said something similar. She said "you do not want to lower your standards for this guy who is "mentally sick" she said he gets a thrill out of doing the things he does. She's right...very right. She also said "you are not the first one he's done this to and you won't be the last". I also hear that if someone cheats before the wedding they will cheat afterwards too. So logically i know better but my heart hurts right now. He even had the nerve to say he wants to continue to call me to be there for me. What a crock of crap i guess thats his way of saying he wants to be friends with benefits