I wouldn't worry about that one moment being the defining end all and be all to this relationship.

It is possible to overthink interactions.

I appreciate well how hard it is to create internally the play it cool face and demeanor. Sometimes showing less concern about not just insecurity, but honestly less actual concern about whether they are having a nice enjoyable evening is the cincher. Oh, ok dear...one says. Well my plans are this...I'll catch up with you later.

I swear it works like a charm. Overtime internally it actually develops into an honest reframing of emotions..and it keeps them coming back

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