Dechan, even the voice of someone can trigger memories. It is normal to feel that way, but it will dissipate. I guess you will have to remember that you are strong, you did the right thing and you have boundaries. I am proud of you for sticking up for yourself on the phone and expressing what was unacceptable for you. It sounds like you are working on staying healthy. You are a wonderful reminder to the rest of us to do the same. tc