This evening, out of the blue, my Mom informed me that my biological father raped her. This happenned New Years Eve 1964/65. I'm not sure how I should have reacted. I told her that it would not surprise me if he did. Years ago I asked my mom if she thought this maniac was capable of sexual abuse of a child. At first she said no, but then called me back and said that she had NO CLUE what he was capable of. My Mom swears that she was pregant before my sperm donator raped her. Therefore my sister is not the result of a rape.

I was confused as to why my Mom could marry such a monster. But she was young and scared. She also agrees that had she not married him, she never would have gotten me. She thinks that is the best thing.

I have heard horror stories before, and read how people have handled them. How do I deal with the fact that the man I loved and looked up to as a child (daddy's girl here)raped my Mom.

I have been estranged from the man who helped me into this world for almost 20 years. It took a lot to restrain myself from calling the bastXXX and confronting him. Thank goodness that I thought it through. Had I called him, he would have just denied the whole thing. Just like last time.

Any idea what you would have done????