She said one time "If I were the type to give homework...." at which I started laughing before she finished her sentence... she doesn't call it 'homework' but instead a suggestion to do something that might prove enlightening... ergo, homework. But I always do it. Not always right away, and sometimes she has to suggest it a couple times, but eventually I do. I trust her, and so far it's been helpful, so I continue. In the past year I've been giving myself homework. Like today.