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Originally Posted by Ladytmt
He's really engaged. I'm not sure if she's ok with it or not. I told her what site he was in and his screen name but maybe she didn't check it out or believe me. I know if it were me and someone was telling me my fiance was on a dating site i'd check it out.
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Holy @#!%^!*#!! what a prize he is, huh?
My friend, you have had a very fortunate escape: Just think, YOU could be the lucky gag:: fiancee :: puke, gag:: who is having the wool pulled over her eyes with his duplicity. Shall we all take odds on how he plied her with charming nonsense so that she doesn't think he'd be online cheating on her still?
Ladytmt, imo you should indeed take this personally. Why? Because you are worth far far far more than to be treated as if your heart, your time, and your self-hood can be played with and devalued by a man who doesn't treat you with honour and integrity.
He sounds seriously twisted in matters of self-worth. You do not.
Best to you, and believe me: "There for you" ((!!! )) from this guy you do not need. Pearls before swine isn't even in it!
The very best to you. Be kind to yourself -- this stuff is painful and distressing on so may levels, I know. xo, Chyia, outraged on your behalf
