Hi there,

I have been there once where it took me close to two years to finally move on from someone, so 5 months is really not bad. The thing that you really have to do is to really let go and realise that there is no possibility of you being with him at all in the future, or even in another life. If the relationship broke due to difference in personalities and life goals then you must know that there will never be a chance with him, whether it be next month or in 20 years.

The moment I finally moved on from my ex was the moment when I realised that we are just so different and we wanted different things in life that it would not have worked at all. Then it was so easy moving on from him. Sometimes it just takes time, though.