Hello viva roman,

While I have never gone through a divorce (never been married!), I know of someone who was in a similar situation as you were. My current partner was married to a woman for 10 years, and together with her for a total of 12 years. I never understood why their marriage failed, since it is very clear to me that he had loved her very much when they were together. They have two daughters together and had one home they lived and another one they rented. I knew that financial issues weren't their problems but for whatever reason she was just never happy with what she had. He said to me that she always tested him and always felt that he didn't love her. She ended up cheating on him as well, and eventually fell pregnant with the man that she cheated on with. He ended up leaving her when he knew of this other man, and up to this day I still believe that she is somewhat bitter about him leaving her. She hates me a lot and calls me names and she doesn't like her kids being in my presence (though she really doesn't have a choice).

I guess what I'm trying to say is that some people will always be unhappy no matter what they have in life. They will constantly compare themselves to others and to them, the grass will always be greener. Doesn't matter how much you love or care for her, she would always be that way. So while you are still fairly young, you should get out from that and find a better life for yourself. Don't remain unhappy being with someone who is always gonna be unhappy even if you give the world to them. hugs to you and hope you are getting better.