I just started a new job about 6 wks ago at a dr office. My bf's mom (who I don't get along with) got me a job there through a friend of hers. I should of known better than to take her handouts because her and her friend that works there gossip about me on fb. This lead to the friend treating me like **** at work. I've done everything to try and get on this girls good side. I'm super polite and even wrote her a nice letter because she got angry at me over some stuff my bf's mom said! Now I feel so stupid because no matter what I do or say I get crapped on each day. And lately her little group of girls at work have developed an attitude! One girl told me how countless women have quit because they couldn't take the stress and the gossip. Is it possible I'm being TOO nice to the point where people are taking advantage of me? I've always had a problem standing up for myself so when I get crap I just turn around and walk away. A friend of mine recently told me she used to work there doing my same job and warned me about this group of women too. I walked out of my last job because of a panic attack after confrontation and I don't want to lose another job because of my MI. Many pdocs have told me to go on SSDI but I don't have enough work history or the time to wait without an income. I get along fine with men! Why can't this be an office full of dudes?! [emoji23]
I guess I'm wondering if anyone has any advice or have been in situations like this? Any input will do! Thanks in advanced!
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