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Old Jan 31, 2016, 07:13 AM
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Haha...men can have their own level of cattiness ^^omega. But I get what you mean. [Especially when they are minority of gender and get in the middle of thinking they are being supportive of one cat over the other..real life experience ]

I don't believe it's just because it's women but the dynamics. I work in kitchens, what does that say?

I hate to say it. Tough skin is necessary. To think none of them have anxiety, etc will hurt your chances of survival.

Is being respected or liked more important? It's the first. Go into do your job. Ignore them on fb, actually ignoring them unless work related is best. You only need to please your boss.

I repeat...you only need to please your boss. The rest don't matter. I've been known to be too nice. But I'll admit I've outlasted some serious dramatics, etc by focusing on professionalism.

Is there at least one safe colleague to at least say hi to?

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Thanks for this!
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