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Originally Posted by Chyialee
Holy @#!%^!*#!! what a prize he is, huh?  My friend, you have had a very fortunate escape: Just think, YOU could be the lucky gag:: fiancee :: puke, gag:: who is having the wool pulled over her eyes with his duplicity. Shall we all take odds on how he plied her with charming nonsense so that she doesn't think he'd be online cheating on her still?
Ladytmt, imo you should indeed take this personally. Why? Because you are worth far far far more than to be treated as if your heart, your time, and your self-hood can be played with and devalued by a man who doesn't treat you with honour and integrity.  He sounds seriously twisted in matters of self-worth. You do not. 
Best to you, and believe me: "There for you" ((!!! )) from this guy you do not need. Pearls before swine isn't even in it!
The very best to you. Be kind to yourself -- this stuff is painful and distressing on so may levels, I know. xo, Chyia, outraged on your behalf  |
Trying to be kind to myself is hard because sometimes all I can think is "what did I do wrong" "why her and not me" but clearly he has the problem and I should not want to be her because she has someone who has no problem cheating on her. but when someone does such deceit on purpose and seems to be "making it" with someone else...it makes you question yourself. I know I'm not the first one he's done this to and won't be the last. One of the things I've always wanted to do is get married...never been married but it seems like god is blessing him with the things I wanted. This is his 3rd marriage why is it fair that he gets to do it a 3rd time or maybe the fact that it is a 3rd time him says something else about his character since he didn't stay married the other times.