Hi Rhap,
Man, that sounds dreadful! I'm sorry you had to go through all that.

I caught my ex-husband and my best gf together when I came home from work one day. Got divorced and he married her. She has my same name IRL, so it was really weird.

I have NEVER been able to trust a man since. It took 10 years before I could trust another female enough to be close friends.

Jeez!! I totally get how those names could bother you still today.

If you are able to find healing, will you please share your secret with me?
XO,
Okie