i guess thats what bother me is that people dont know what to say. i knwo im being unreasonable about it. i wouldnt know what to say either honestly. also i fear that people dont believe me like im making it up or something. because thats what everyone said in my town when the news paper wrote an article about it. they didnt know my name i was patient X, but in the comments they all defended my former T saying i seduced him and wanted his money, he is such a good guy he would never do that., etc. maybe i am just making it seem worse than it was.

@ilikecats- yes after i told i was made to file a complaint and was investigated for 2 or 3 months. i had evidence of what went on bc of over 200 emails between me and former T.. they tried to investigate him but he wouldnt cooperate and he settled with them for revoking his therapy license forever