My husband has been sayig for a while not that when i am on my period i get stupid. He has been getting increasingly mean to me during this time for the last two years. At first it was just calling me stupid. Then it was not letting me going anywhere with him because he could not "bear my stupidity". Lately he has refused to let me drive because i am "too stupid and unable to learn".
I dont notice anyhing different in my behavior or my attitude or anything other than the fact that i am on my period. I think he just automatically comes up with this idea when i tell him i started. I have tried just not telling him but he demands to know. If he wants to have sex and i dont tell him until then he gets furious. (He says the bible says that it is wrong to have sex durin this time. )
Anyway...i just get flustered and upset. I dred this whole time of the month because he does not give me a break( not like he ever does anyway) and he acts like i disgust him.