My fiancée was s bit afraid to tell me that he has Tourettes ( although it is very visible and I knew on the first date that it's got to be that but still he was scared), OCD ( it's severe, hard to function even to leave the house if he doesn't take Meds), AHDH etc he was worried I would be turned off that he takes Meds for OCD ( it also takes edge of Tourettes symptoms). It absolutely doesn't bother me at all. He told me on a third date. It never bothers me. He also worried ( in the very beginning) I might be embarrassed of him in public when his Tourettes gets out of whack ( his ex was embarrassed of him). Absolutely not!!!!! Quite the opposite, I am very proud he is so successful and brave despite these limitations
Saying that if the person doesn't work I'd need to know before I go on a date because I cannot support two people. If however something happens to my partner like loses his job or becomes sick after and can't work I would support him. I just wouldn't choose that as a potential partner.
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