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Old Feb 02, 2016, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Petra5ed View Post
I have no idea. My therapist won't say those words.

He might not feel that way, so saying he cant say it is a lot less awkward then saying he doesn't love me. Love means such different things to different people.

I kind of hate this about therapy. On it's face I know I'm dealing with a guy putting on an act. He's a therapist, so on it's face his act is to be therapeutic. Naturally I start to feel relaxed, and like this guy, he's being so nice. But does he really mean the things he's saying, or is it just part of the act? He can't say... part of the rules you see.
I see my T today. If I get enough nerve I'll ask her if she's putting on an act though of course she wouldn't say yes to that. I think Ts are genuine but it's their most compassionate side we're seeing. That doesn't mean it's an act, does it?
Thanks for this!
Bipolar Warrior, Petra5ed