Write a poem but don't send it. I know someone who sends dead flowers and headless dolls to people. To symbolize things. It is very scary. Especially at home if she has family living with her. I know you aren't trying to scare her but it could be perceived as such. Sorry you are hurting

Treat yourself to something like nice meal or new clothes. You deserve it. Don't bother sending stuff

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