To be honest we're not managing too well. I was diagnosed Borderline September 2014, and Bipolar this past October. It was like a double whammy. Like you said, it's nice to know why I am the way I am, but it still doesn't make up for the three houses I lost, and the $31,000 debt I've put us in, or the fact that I completely ruined our credit and chances of buying a house anytime soon. My husband is trying to understand, but he has admitted that all of this has made him look at me differently. I'm now medicated and I'm hoping counseling will help us deal with all of this better. We start next Monday. I feel like this is my last chance.