I know from ex-T that thinking all the time whether someone is going to leave you is exhausting. Utterly tiring to have it consume things and to try so hard to be exactly what you think you should be in order to not be left or rejcted. I was the same as I was so terrified of doing anything wrong and getting rejected. That's why when she left I felt some relief. I didn't have to worry anymore. This last week I've realised how free I feel.

I know what it's like to be so attached you can't even think of leaving but being on the outside I also know that you can get through it.