Mybest, Wants, and Soliaree,
First, Soliaree...37 is young! You have a couple of decades ahead of you in which you can still enjoy youthful appearance, so I say, go for it! I know there are many factors contributing to why we let ourselves go, and I remember doing so even at your age, but having youth is a great advantage when it comes to rejuvinating your appearance.
Wants and Mybest...For me, I don' t mind the wrinkles and sags, and liken it to the "Velveteen Rabbit." Both of you sound way ahead of me in terms of appearance, and weight issues. I know what I need to do to lose the damn weight, but lack the motivation. I kinda like my life as it is, but I sure would like to be thin!
Love
Patty