Keep in mind that technically your father is an adult. So let him be responsible for his own behaviors.
One of the best ways for you to cope is to get involved outside the home if possible in fulfilling activities that hopefully will give you good experience for your own future. My brother coped with our horrible home life by taking a part time job and by running track. Can you do something like that? If you cannot and you are mostly "stuck" at home, then developing hobbies that keep you busy and not focusing on your father's poor behavior is the next best thing.
I will say this: Part of the reason why adults continue with obnoxious behaviors is because they are enabled to. Wherever possible, don't be the audience for your father acting out.
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